User registration

Email is used as your login name.

Photo notice:
You must upload at least 3 photos. Your full face must be visible. Sunglasses, nudity, screenshots, and AI-generated images are prohibited.

Additional traits and interests

Select the items that describe you. Internal evaluation is not visible to the user.
You are describing yourself, not your partner. In an area you mark as important, a match counts for more and a mismatch is taken seriously.
Pick the one option that applies to you.
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What closeness means to you

Five short questions. This is not a test and there are no wrong answers – they simply help me understand what actually feels good to you in a relationship. If a question does not fit you, feel free to leave it be.

You have had a hard day. What would make that evening better?
When you think of someone close to you, what comes to mind first?
When you care about someone, how does it show first?
What would you miss most in a relationship if it suddenly went away?
How do you know things are good between you?

Hidden matching parameters

These answers are never shown to the other person. Only the matching system sees them, so it can find someone you will click with. Fill in what fits you – you can change it in your profile at any time.
How you see children in your future.
Where the relationship should be heading.
How you imagine sharing a home with a partner.
How much of a role it plays in your everyday life.
1 = fully modern division of roles, 5 = traditional division of roles.
How much you need a similar outlook on the world and society.
How you naturally behave during an argument.
1 = I keep emotions to myself, 5 = I talk about them completely openly.
What comes to you most naturally.
1 = rather little touch, 5 = lots of hugs and closeness.
1 = I prefer being together almost all the time, 5 = I need a lot of space of my own.
How often you text or call on an ordinary day.
What suits you for everyday contact.
How quickly you want to move from messages to meeting.
When you have the most energy.
1 = very calm, 5 = very busy and packed.
1 = relaxed about it, 5 = everything must be in order.
1 = spontaneity, 5 = everything planned in advance.
1 = I feel best in quiet and small circles, 5 = company energises me.
1 = I save and plan, 5 = money is for experiences.
1 = work is just work, 5 = my career matters a great deal to me.
1 = I like calm, 5 = sport and movement are part of my day.
How you like to spend your free time.
How you like to travel.
What suits you best around food.
How you feel about animals at home.
Where you stand on smoking and what you can live with in a partner.
How you approach get-togethers and celebrations.
What makes you laugh most.
What you play most often.
Minimum 10 characters, at least 1 uppercase letter and at least 1 number.

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